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wow. that is a very tough decision. i don't blame u for feeling betrayed, but don't U betray them. as in, if u feel u can't back them up, don't sink them, either. honestly, if u think u really can't back them up, that u'll just look for ruining the relationship, back away for a while. let them know, and back away. i understand that she's ur best friend, but in this case, that'd b the best, i think. while u sort out ur emotions and all, if u know u can't handle it, then don't try it just yet. forgiving them and letting them be happy, being happy for them, would obviously be very good, but needless to say very hard for u. it's not an over-night thing. u gotta work with it, think about it, "digest it". don't hate them, and don't ruin it for them. while it might get u the guy, it'll lose u the best friend, and those are hard to find and if necessary, forget. they can never b replaced. not when they TRULLY deserve being called "best friend". that's what i think. hope it helped. if u got any other questions and feel i could help u, just PM me. i'll do what i can to help. i like helping....[or trying anyway, in hopes that it INDEED helps sweatdrop ]
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