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Posted: Sat Jul 28, 2007 1:59 am
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Posted: Sat Jul 28, 2007 10:20 pm
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Posted: Sat Jul 28, 2007 11:14 pm
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Posted: Sun Jul 29, 2007 12:49 am
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Posted: Sun Jul 29, 2007 12:03 pm
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Posted: Sun Jul 29, 2007 10:14 pm
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Posted: Sun Jul 29, 2007 10:34 pm
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Posted: Mon Jul 30, 2007 2:12 pm
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Posted: Tue Jul 31, 2007 6:35 pm
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Posted: Tue Jul 31, 2007 6:58 pm
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Posted: Thu Aug 02, 2007 12:19 am
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Posted: Thu Aug 02, 2007 11:15 am
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Ahh...yes...the good old labels....
Yep, yep...this society is relaly wild---> well that's what i think anyways. Personally, I'm kind of alone with 1 or two best friends in the world. Yes we're best friends and would die for each other, But we've known each other for several years now. We've done good and bad, fought, and accused. We were once strangers who probably would have done those things you mentioned if we had met in a different situation, but we didn't. And we got into really bad fights where we wouldn't talk to each other for weeks, but in the end we were friends, just mad at each other, we still cared for each other. That's what my definition of friendship is.
It's not easy to obtain, but once it's obtain it can be the best thing that ever happen, beside love, but then again for me, it's my friendship with my two friends in the world. Friendship, I think, takes time, because you need to get to know them and see them for who they are, not just what everyone thinks of them. First appearances either leave an "in" look or an "out" look. But who can judge that but you, that's right, you can, but many people don't. Many people just go with the flow afraid of what will happen when they don't chose to go with the flow.
And like some people say, "Don't worry who you're friends are in highschool, because it's college that you find out who you're real friends are."
*deep breath* In conclusion, be who you are and don't listen to anyone who says anything. You've got to give to receive. Friends aren't easily obtain, if they are, they may not be great friends. In High school there is too much drama, You're either "in" or you're not. If you're not in, no one will like you, except those that are not "in" like you or if you're not cool enough to be with them too, then you're just not good enough for anyone. <--- NO! Don't think that. If you think that, then many other people will think like so too. You need to be confident and believe in yourself. Friends like yours aren't everything. And who cares about a BIG group of Friends? I really don't. As long as i have some great friends, I'd rather have a small group of friends, rather then a big group of friends who aren't really that close.
Don't be picky about who you want as friends, because those that you want to be friends with are usually the ones who aren't that great. Just let every be and do whatever you want. You'll find friends before you know it.
*sighs* I'm done, sorry for the whole spiel, I didn't mean to do it...it just all came out...sorry...*bows*
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Posted: Thu Aug 02, 2007 9:09 pm
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i couldn't agree more with lili. really, good friends are extremly hard to come by, and frienships are HARDLY [as in, impossible] to establish in a "matter of seconds". it takes time, like she said, get to know them, trust them, have them see u cry and/or trully suffer from something that happened [not a kindergarden-like problem. i mean, a real problem, a real family problem, like me with my dad who suffers from short-term memory loss among other things]. when u get to that point, when that friend goes trhu that WITH u, sticks by u when u really need it, knows ur weaknesses and doens't use them against u, THAT'S a real friend. that's what i'd say is WORTH calling friendship, not the crappy gang-like groups that arise thru and in high school. like fenera said, sometimes it's better to be alone. as for the girls who flirt for answers, i'm gonna be as blunt as possible: high school sweet-hearts barely stick together beyond that. they are just that, and nothing more: HIGHSCHOOL sweethearts. i honestly say it's not even worth it. i didn't have my first [and thankfully only, since we're still together] boyfriend until after highschool, and the guy didn't even go to my school [though i'd known him for a couple of years trhu a friend]. anyway, point is, just plainly don't pay attention to them. they flirt, well, good for them. honestly, relations in highschool are all a matter of "social-status", and that's plain bullcrap. not necessary, u can get by without them perfectly fine. a relation shouldn't be based on "oh, look, he's hot, i'll flirt and have him ask me out". it's about personality, and u have to know the person far beyond looks to establish a real connection. of course, maybe u r lookin ofr a girlfriend, i really wouldn't know, and i understand it's nice having a relationship, but it's not a necessity. i mean no offense in case u r looking, but the action of LOOKING FOR implies a need, and like i said, it's not necessary. in my opinion, u should take it easy. if it happens, it happend. u should plainly tell them u are not gonna pay attention to their flirting if its for answers. if they flirt, say its not for that, but then ask, screw them. dump them like a bag of trash, bcs that's how they'd be behaving.
yes, it couldn't be any more realistic. this society NEEDS a kick with morales and reality, but sadly it isn't happening bcs ppl are too obssesed with their "status". sadly, there are not many ppl who realize it, realize that status is nothing more than just that, a word, meaningless in times of need. and those who use u: "KARMA'S A b***h, PUNK!" maybe not now, but they'll get their b***h-slap of reality soon enough, and when they do, it'll be too late to turn back, and then they can sulk in self-pity and missery. there's ur revenge. u really don't have to do anything to get back at them. just let them try and fend for themselves. once they see what they were taking for granted, once they've lost something precious bcs they misjudged the value and used it to their apparent content, THEN they'll wallow in their consciousness and u can have ur laugh.
and...ummm...sorry for the rant, kinda got started and then couldn't help but keep it up
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Posted: Sat Aug 04, 2007 12:38 am
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actually to tell teh truth i was looking for a gf. but not someone who i abrely know or even d/k. it's my close friends. but they are just like evryone else..trying to maintain their status. the girls i know who i like are.
turtle: huggle buddy, always taken, very pretty, likes same things as me, band, always tries to help me w/ my problems and gives me advice that makes me forget about my problems.
busykitty: Keeps distance, hates hugs, never taken, feared, cute, all guys want her for her figure, top ranking in all classes, has a superiority complex, choir, knows i've liked her and sometimes analyzes what i do when i talk to her, always there to give me advice and try to cheer me up( even though her advice hurts more than the problem).
lol. look at me. sweatdrop im sure everyone has expericned in one point or another that once u've felt some form of love u can't get it out of your mind. even if others don't think of it as love and u do. u wish u cud always have it. that's how i feel.
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Posted: Sat Aug 04, 2007 10:37 am
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