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sisu uwu
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I have been taught a good lesson in life
Last night, I was dumped by my boyfriend of three months.

I did not think it would end this soon, but it did.
He felt that we would be better as friends and that he felt like he was not good enough for me.

I told him that I am not high maintance b***h and I do not ask for much.
But...he is so ******** hardheaded and I do not know why I am wasting my breath on someone that will not listen to me? D:<

In my opinion, I was a good girlfriend.
I never cheated on him or looked at any other guy while I was dating him, I supported him through anything, and I talked to him so much.
But, I knew I was not good for him.
I mean, he wanted a second girlfriend!!
What the ******** is up with that? D:<
Really?

I made the worse mistake of my life giving him my heart and body.
I am not like these other bitches on my campus.
Unlike them, I have strong morals and I had plans to save myself til I found the one.
I thought he was the one, but he was not. Thanks to him, I might have something that I should not have........> . >

I will not make that same mistake again.
My eyes will improve.....

Anyways, this message was for my friends to begin with.
I know some of you are virgins, never experience love or heartbreak, or never been in a relationship.
DO NOT expose yourself too soon if that does happen because it will be the worse mistake of your ******** life.

I have no regrets giving my virginity to that guy, but he broke my heart and that can not be forgiven that easily.

Anyways, if you truly like someone...ask yourself "Will this really work out between us or is this relationship meant to be?"

Anyways, do not go through the same thing I did...it hurts.






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animeman2009
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comment Commented on: Fri Jan 16, 2009 @ 12:00am
What? I could have sworn that you winked at me...Haha Jk.
But wow, that sounds intense!
Honestly, if he wanted a second girlfriend, then thats not a guy you should concern yourself with at all.
I know you're better than that, and you know you are too. ^^
I wish you the best of luck in the pursuit of "The One."
I'm sure he will find you before you find him. lol


comment Commented on: Sat Jan 31, 2009 @ 04:29am
I remember when this happened and I stand by what I say in the continuing search for a suitable partner. There are indeed good stable guys who devote themselves body and soul to a partner and are completely honest and true. These guys are very hard to come by and are in short supply. Perhaps you may find this sort of guy or find an opposite of you that you adore. Love is an interesting part of us, it can be found in the most obvious, cliche or unexpected locations so its best to be in for a suprise when the time comes around.
I think I might have found a guy, but for the time being, we are just friends. Plus, he lives in England so it would be some time before we may actually meet. Even if we do, we may always be friends and I would be happy with just that. I can not say whether i am destined to have a partner in my life, but as long as I am here, I am going to make the best of things and let things happen.



United Republic of Jam
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Tarrien
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comment Commented on: Wed Feb 04, 2009 @ 09:34pm

I'm sorry to hear it ended like this Kris.
Some guys just are great at playing a girl's heart. But I know you'll be a lot stronger from this. And because you're different, strong, and passionate about love I'm sure the one just for you will be more than understanding about not being a virgin.

Quite honestly I threw my virginity away since I just didn't feel like it mattered anymore. I've was depressed and honestly it was the best decision I've made in a long time since it was one of the best nights I've had in a long time. The time was right and that's all that mattered.

Relationships are so complicated. And I'm glad you posted this for our other friends that aren't as experienced as either of us in certain fields.


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