What is your problem?
It's a boy.
a BOY.
You may find excuses to cry over him. You can cry, but only for a little bit. After that, focus on getting over it.
Remember your idea about dating?
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"The worst thing to cry about is over a boy not liking you because all that means is that they won't be the one you'll marry."
You don't wanna spend eternity with an inconsiderate jerk, do you?
They wouldn't wanna spend eternity with you anyway, if they act that way towards you.
Now, in this case, he will still like me even if he dates other girls in the meantime. I cannot date until I'm 16, so I must wait. Now, in my religion, it's best to not get too attached to one boy-- especially during your teenage years. Date a various amount of boys with your standards before choosing one you will be devoted to (be bf/gf). Me and him? We're just friends for now. I just need to remember:
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1. Will I date nonmembers?
2. Will I date boys who smoke or drink?
3. Will I date one person steadily while I'm a teenager?
4. What limits on intimacy will I maintain before marriage?
5. What qualities must a young man I date possess?
6. Will I live my life according to gospel standards?
2. Will I date boys who smoke or drink?
3. Will I date one person steadily while I'm a teenager?
4. What limits on intimacy will I maintain before marriage?
5. What qualities must a young man I date possess?
6. Will I live my life according to gospel standards?
1. He's not mormon
2. Frighteningly, he has drank before (and he's only 14 eek )
3. As far as I know: he apparently can't live, breathe, or sleep without knowing he has a girlfriend -_-
4. Eh, he's knows my standards
5. Well, being nonmormon pretty much sums that one up
6. He wouldn't appear to be a very "good" Mormon...
Unless I knock some Mormon sense into this kid, I really shouldn't be too worried about him not dating me. In fact, it probably wouldn't be too good for me to date him anyway. So, I guess it shouldn't matter to me whether he dates me or not. If he dates me (which most likely he will when I'm at least 16) then that's fine. If he doesn't, that's ok too biggrin
So stop crying.
Suck it up.
He's still your friend
So don't worry.
Even if he dates other girls
That's what dating is all about: meeting new people.
So just relax.
