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Heh, alot of nice guys do finish way last, I'm not gonna lie bro. I don't get chics myself even if I'm one as well. I've come across too many girls that like the bad guys but wish for a 'sweetie' and a funny man. All I do is stare and think 'what are you a jackass? That Jim guy is so into you and you hardly even noticed him.. damn it.' Since it's usually none of my business I can't say much either way they always go, 'Oh no, me and him are just friends, I'm not into him.' then I think 'well wtf, stop complaining then.' Relationships are really over rated neh? lol. But if you want my opinion... I think girls feel sufficated when they get too much, ya know? When things are just given to them.. they're alot more complicated, they like working with things. If you act like a friend to them.. that's what you're gonna be.. a friend. Alot of times I don't think girls see it as friend then boyfriend. They don't see that a boyfriend is basicly your best friend that you have a stong attraction towards, sexually, emotionally, crap like that. Alot of what I see is to them friends aren't for dating. So I think the only way to get a chic would be is if she has any attraction to you in the first place and you just start flirting, and some how keep a barrier between you and them, not physical, but you know.. when she starts to cry to you about other men and this and that.. You're getting too close to her in the wrong way. (harsh I know, but I notice it alot.) I know girls like emotion, they live for emotion.. alot of times, girls want the people who are emotionaly unavailable because they want to see him open up to them and hence THEY feel special. Atleast that's what it seems like. Honestly I don't know since people tell me I'm well..how do I put this.. heartless? lol, I don't think it's true, or at least exact but .. from the girls I've been around, they can't seem to make really good decisions, on the men. Others though do like the sweet guys.. even if they aren't that great looking. I guess all it is is waiting and knowing how to walk the line between careless and giving. sweat Thinking about it now I don't know why I told you all that. When I think about what you typed.. it actually makes me sad. / Don't change just to get a girl, if she doesn't like you for who you are.. screw them, they could take it up the a** from 20 bikers and have 30 STD's what's it to ya? You're an awesome person I like ya, it would suck to see you change just cause a bunch a chics don't know how to choose em'. ( In the end it's up to you man. Whatever is important to you. If it's getting a girl.. or just being a good person/ decent human being. I honestly hate it when I see good people changing because of the pressures of society. But I don't think I'm 'emotionaly dependant' ( I guess that's what it's called ) so I can't tell you whether it's truely wrong... But it sucks to see you down because of this. Is there some girl you like or something?... ....Wait. OMFG! I think my cats water broke.. i'll type more later if you want.. but ya get it right? HOLY s**t WHAT DO ID DO!?!?!??!

Wow. I know it's a little late, but "HOT WATER!! GET THE HOT WATER!" Towels are good too.

Anyway, yeah I'm down about it. It makes me a little upset. And no. I don't really have my eye on anybody, I just don't want to be single forever ya know. sweatdrop That's kinda how it seems like it's gonna go. Oh well. Maybe you're right. It just ain't worth changing. I suppose if I gotta be single forever that's whats gonna happen huh? I love me. That's all that matters right? Thanks for the comment, there Mai. I appreciate the feedback.

LMAO, Dias, you're not gonna be single for forever trust me. I doubt that could ever happen, but worrying over it is... well to me it's a waste of time, but again that's that 'priorities' thing. What matters to you, ya know?

Look at it this way. We don't know why we're here, right? You know, living, alive, existing, that crap? What meaning or purpose are we here for? Some people say it's to find true love, that certain somebody, and then.. well reproduce, like any other animal. Others say it's enlightenment, to reach the stars. Others say to find perfection in one's self perfection in society, the basics of idealism or maybe selfishness depending on how you look at it. ( there are more but I don't remember..) Each of these paths is believed to lead you to some sort of True Nirvana, right? But which one seems more worth while? Which to you seems right? That's a matter of the individual right? It depends on our needs and personal value system. I don't know whether I'm right or not but I think I'm the perfectionist.
What are you?

Honestly if I didn't have my own personal little issues (and morals), I might've even told you I wouldn't mind dating a guy like you.. and by that, I mean you lol. But it seems I DO have complications, don't worry it's nothing crazy... But yeah.. see? Your personality IS attractive. ^_^

Well Thanks. That boosts my self esteem. I'm glad the personality is attractive. BTW, what morals, and issues? I'm not trying to be nosy, it's just the whole idiot button prospect. I'm gonna be wonderin' about it all day lol.

Also, I think... my meaning in life is to make others happy. I dunno, but I feel really proud of myself when I see someone else simle. It brightens my day ya know?

Thanks a lot you've made me happier!

LMAO, I understand, it's cool.

Well for one, despite what I type or whatever in RPs, I'm actually not a very affectionate person.. to say the least. eh... heheheh. heh. >> In addition I get detatched when too much attention is put on me or when people just generally start showing more affectionate towards me, especially physical. It's odd. But I think I know why.. so.. it's logical lol. Neh, it's not so bad hahaha, so don't get concerned about it.

So far as morals go, internet dating/ hook ups.. well, they're just a no no. See? nothing too bad, lol.

Quite the selfless one arentcha?.. or selfish.. I can't tell lol. But if that's what you strive for... I don't think it matters on the quantity of girls as far as the quality. Ya know?.. Actually.. maybe that should be a rule for all relationships now that I think about it. Trail and error is such a b***h though lol.

Honestly, I think you're right. Nice guys do finish last.

I hate to say it, because I want to cheer you up...

I'm a smoker, I curse a lot, I appear to be one of the guys that keep gettin' the gals from you, but I'm not. And it's taken me a long time, despite my age, to find someone who can accept that.

Age is only a number. And facades are just that. All hard-asses are hiding.

You're better. You'll get the gal.

Give it time, Prince Charming.

Yeah. I have BIG problems with internet relationships too. I tried it one time and I will NEVER go back. There are a lot of crazies out there! I just say no t long distance things now. My internet (ex)girlfriend is STILL obsessed with me. She scared me cuz we broke up a year ago and she said a few weeks ago that she was going to come find me and take me away so that we can live together forever. ... Psycho.

Anyway Houk. Thanks for your encouragement. And a funny thing happened today... I think I asked a girl on a date. lol. I mean I've asked girls on dates before but I didn't realize I had asked this girl until after I had. lol. Weirder, she said yes. lol. So yeah. It's probably nothing but I just thought I'd mention it.

Yeah, i'm not much of a trusting person, the whole thing just seems like a bad idea.

And..
biggrin Congrats! See? Not so bad, neh? Though.. I don't know how you did that with out know it lol. Ahh, only you Dias hahaha.

Yeah. lol. She was talkin' about how life on campus was boring, and I said, "Well, maybe you and me can go into Martinsburg. There's a little more to do there." She smiled a little smile, the kind of shy 'wow' smile, and said "Sure. I'd like that.. a lot." So yeah, I had no clue what I had done til it was over. lol I had thought about asking her out a couple days ago, but I didn't realize how easy it was lol.

GOOD FOR YOU!!!

Dates are nice. Hope it goes well.

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s**t. I want a guy like you. 3nodding

And dear, if nice guys finished first, the world would be a really pleasant place.

Just know you're giving us nice girls that finish last, hope.

Thanks Silver. Yeah. I try to be the good guy, I grew up with Danny Tanner, and Joey Gladstone from Full House as roll models lol.

Also You're SOOOOOOOOO right. If nice guys finished first, the world wouldn't suck so bad.

BTW Silver, Since you're a nice girl, it sucks to be nice huh? lol.

Thanks for the comment. I think since you all are the only ones that commented even after I wrote in big letters, "PLEASE READ AND COMMENT," I might send you all a little gift of some sort.