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I won't say my way is the best way. I will not say it is right. i will say, it works, and it is natural.

When I say get real and accept life, I don't mean be a retard. Life, the act of being alive, we have thoughts and emotions. There is an equal balance of happiness and sadness.

Alone, the strongest survive. If you are sad, you choose to be sad. Sadness is not bad, but it is when you let it control and/or hurt you. If you realize you are letting sadness hurt you and you do nothing, you are now a fool. The words are not harsh enough to show how serious the penalty can be.
"An error doesn't become a mistake until you refuse to correct it."

Everything so far is ust a collage of outlooks. Lets start on me. No, I am not an egotistical toad, there is a reason to star with me. I am the author, my writings will make more sense when read in the new context.

I am Delran Nocturne. I am the (last) keeper of the Denrabi clan. I was a very close, and the most trusted of friends. I think realistic and logiacally. I am adept dealing emotionally, but that may not always be best.

I find it rough to deal with some people. If you wish to speak to me, don't bother until you are ready to accept my words.

I like to be the puppet master, and work behind the scene. I do not lead, although I am far past capable. I am a carpathion, and have many "times of the day."

If you ever cross my path, don't be a rebel.




Lets focus on humanity for the time being. Human life, not other animals. We focus on humans because we are human, we are by no means special.

As with all life, humanity brings many problems as well as the more balanced joy. Problems are too abundant to count, but many can be solved, yet some shouldn't be. Brandon Antillion has written an essay on 'Premarital Cohabitation'. I will show this later, with his permission of course.

Humans, for the most part, let the problems cloud their mind. A few things that may gore your mind are: relationships, death, financial problems, and of course the environmental factors.

Lets discuss why and how they will be a stigma on your thoughts and conscience(mind you what I say is just one of multiple ways it may effect you).

Relationships may cause a person to become dependent on another. This is dangerous in its own because alone, you will fall, and be trampled. Premarital cohabitation also ties into relationships, but I will not go into that. I am not going to talk about relations alone, but focus on this subject, premarital sex.

Premarital sex can be harmful in many ways. Everyone knows it changes a relationship, but do they know why? It is a chemical released called Oxytocin that makes you mentally attached to the person you had intercourse with. This is the very same reason rape victims are troubled even through years of therapy.*

If you have premarital sex, then you better hope you get married, or else you will lose a part of yourself when you lose that person.

Now to focus on how death will effect you. We all know that it does, but ever know why? It is because death is permanent. You can never regain whats dead. This fact makes death the only sure thing, and the most harmful at that.

Depending on who is lost, no matter what person, someone will miss them.There are ways to move on. However most people become weak soon after for a period, and the grieving is necessary to move forward. Holding in those feelings will harm you emotionally and in turn, physically. You have to move on, but not let go.

Financial problems are definitely an issue in the household. Not only the poor, but the rich as well. The family and household is the foundation for your growth. Depending on your parents, you may be great, or horrible. The poorer generally tend to be closer together, like a real family. The rich however, parents will tend to be more distant from their kids, changing them.

Your environmental factors also will effect you greatly. These are what shape you into the person you are today, from birth to present day, you. Your parents, house, friends, everything. The past can be joyous, mournful, or just decent. The sad past will hold many people back, and they will not let go of it in order to move on. This will make a life hell in any case.

Those people tend to be conceited and selfish. Their actions not only hurt themselves but everyone around them. Cutting, suicidal thoughts, these are the worst, they do not hurt the person doing them the most, but the ones who care for them. This is where the selfish and conceited part arises. These thoughts will change those around them shall they choose to stick around.

These people will choose to stay sad, and refuse to fix themselves. They will not accept the world, and will grow up much slower than most people. Once they grow up they will be the cure for themselves and realize that they can make their life better just like every other person. You are not a sad nothing, you are not god, you are a human, and you can do things you need to for yourself.