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Bunny_Kafer
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People are closed minded to no1 but themselves
Ranting about online relationships v IRl relationships between my friend Gangles0(currently in a IRl relationship) and myself(currently in a internet relationship)
I will post more if this contuies, this is ornigally done in a journal entry on myspace so I am filling in the names and quotes to fit here on gaia
all names mentioned DO have gaians and if they care to grip at me for using their names they may so,


Gangles0
I"M PISSED AND I"M ABOUT TO PISS OFF A LOT OF PEOPLE BUT I DON"T CARE 'CAUSE I"M PISSED. PIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIISSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSEEEEEEEEEEED.

Internet relationships are retarded.

First of all, even if you ARE in one, why the hell would you go around telling everyone? The fact that you have to go to the entire WORLD population in order to find someone willing to date you is not exactly an admirable trait. And last time I checked, being desperate WASN'T something to be proud of.

Second, this person has NO effect on your life, other than talking to you. So if this is true, then what is the purpose? You gain emotional support, but a friend does the same thing, that doesn't make them your boyfriend/girlfriend. So what's left? Nothing. It's just a title. A trophy. You think I'M horrible for assaulting your "love"? At least I'm not using people as trophies.

And speaking of love, how exactly did you fall in "love" with this entity? Let's face it, it was through text on a screen. Now let's think about this: Who could have typed that? ANYONE. I'm not asking who DID type that, but who COULD have typed that. So your love could be given to ANY person if they play their cards right. "Hey I love you because you just happened to say the right things to me at the right time." That's it. That's all there is. It's no different than winning the ******** lotto. Wow, that sounds like a very special love.

Last, I understand that you think you are the exception to the whole "chatroom rapist" deal, and that's fine, it's unlikely anyway. But IF that happens and your life and sanity are destroyed: I'm going to laugh because it was your own damn fault. You took a risk, and lost.

RAWR RAWR RAWR I HATE EVERYTHING RAWR RAWR RAWR



By the time I read your comments, I will most likely no longer be pissed at everything. Therefor, if you want to convince me against my previous statements, a peaceful and understanding arguement for your side will persuade me a lot better. Yelling at me will only cause me to be more stubborn, defeating the purpose of the yelling itself.

Bunny_Kafer
yeah, no yelling is gunna happen cause I'm throughly pissed now &&! What gives you the right to say it's wrong? what gives me the right to say it's ok? NOTHING GIVES EITHER OF US THE RIGHT&&! but I'm gunna b***h bout it anyways!

What makes you think a face to face relationship is any better? because you can hold the person? cause you can randomly show up n give them cute little presents? cause you can get laid??!?!?! Relationships are ******** bullshit as is Mitch! online or not, it's still a bunch of bull crap! and yeah most online relationships are crap because they don't really truly have feelings and they only think "oh I have a bf out of state that makes me cool and gives me a scapegoat to feeling cruddy and emo and crap" but there ARE a few true relationships that are online relationships, like Anthoney's and mine. we aren't planning on staying online for all our lives, we are planning on seeing each other in 50 days in fact for prom! Jessy is dating one of my best friends who lives out in Texas! it's working for them!

and yeah caring words can be written from anyone, and yeah we put ourself up for it, but aren't you as well? it's ashlene taking the chance of you being a jack-a** of a boyfriend like her last one was as well? its she putting herself up for you to smash her heart? does that mean you're gunna? no, that's your choice, like it's everyone else's choice as well to hold someone's heart and take the chance to smash it, and you know what? I got that off an ICON!!! yes people get their thoughts form others, IT'S HOW WE LEARN!!!!!! it's how we grow, we listen to others and us theirs words in our own life's!! so yeah someone else could have written this entire paragraph, because at this moment I'm not me, I'm a pissy lil rabbit who's angry at her mother and her sister and her school and is not ranting because your rant ticked me off enough to blow, because I'm sick n tired of people questioning my choice of a relationship just because it's online, I don't normally question your choice for a face to face in which so much wrong could happen as well! so why the heck do you think you can go ahead and b***h about my choice?

I can rant right back how I think face to face is bullshit cause in one week you can go from never touching someone before to leaving hickeys on their backs and go on 5 minute long make out seasons in the middle of 4th hour while the guy is ditching his class to do SO!!(and yes I'm aiming at Cheasle and Taylor-and they can grip at me later if they feel the need so) real life relationships theres SO much more drama bout being intamit, theres more of a chance of sex, theres more crap and s**t and yadda yadda bout being close bout holding hands bout kissing bout PDA and the WHOLE F***ing SHA-BANG! People are only in relations(most of them at least) to get intamit to be passionate to have someone to showcase off their arm and to get ******** laid! that's all most teenage relationships are anymore! 5there are a few like yours(you and ashlene) and Dizzy's(here and tyler-but true fully I'm not sure fully about this one just because) but most are nothing but for the body and for the trophy of it!

but face to face is just as bull crap as online., the only relationships in EITHER that EVER work out!! is when both people are dedicated to each other and are willing to overcome all that is needed to overcome to make it work, that's the end line Mitch, because theres no point in either online or not if theres no true feelings between them.


And then I retorted again before he replaid back


Bunny_Kafer
add another thing it's not cause they are desperate as you say, it's another form of dating, it's like speed dating or blind dates, it's not nesccarly cause you are desperate it's cause itss a different way, different ways for different people, I could say you are desperate cause you are dating your best friend, cause you let your bars lower cause you couldn't find someone to fill those bars! that's why there are so many ******** people in this world! because there's only 1 out there for you at a time! and how else are you suppose to find them? move every week to a new place? how do you know the one you are with is the right one? you don't I don't, no one does till it's fully certain and that takes years to figure out! you don't know you'll end up with ashlene in the end, I have faith that I will be with Anthoney but that doesn't mean it's true, something could happen that we can't control, but the thing is that it's still a relationship, rather it's right in front of your face or across the continent or even on the other side of the earth!


edit dec 14th 2009

For anyone who has read this or is rereading this or whatever, just as I stated I didn't know what the world had in store for me, Anthoney and I have been apart for over a year now, I have found another person to care for, we are living together, and life goes on, it's going pretty well right now. Ashlene and Mitch broke up, not a pretty thing. He in turn went onto half-way dating Kenny/Jessica, after Ashlene stole her bf in texas. That didnt really last, she's with the guy in Texas again (Jordan) Ashlene is out of both their lives, she continued and and last I heard was spouting mean things to her last bf about Mitch, Mitch is in college last I heard he is head over heels for yet another one of my lil sisters, n Dizzy is last I heard getting a sex change. Course I'm also pretty sure she/he and Tyler are still together <3 at least I hope so.

Life goes on, relationships are just that, a relation with another human, my big brother figure is dating a chick in Canada, she's 19 he is 32, it's love in it's own way, and no one should pass judgment because their own eyes are clouded to it.

sorry rant done with now ^^





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