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My sister as been bugging me to Post the fight I had for my Mother and such so here it goes...

I took time off work as I haven't been home for almost a year now because I couldn't take her controlling ways, so anyways I wanted to visit her because thats what family does right? Sooo I got everything set up and prepared everything so I could leave... Well we had closed highways and blizzards to drive through but that didn't deture me from seeing my mother for a change. My current girlfriend is doing all the driving and 20 hours of driving is really hard on anyone I don't care who it is and how skilled they are, you get tired...you get tired right?

SO we keep going west to Vancouver.

As we get to Golden BC, we had a massive detour to radium hot springs then back up to golden so we shrugged it off an hour later we hit the spring... then another hour back up to golden... and on top to that another 6-8 to go but that add on 2 hours to our trip.
Finally we drove into Surrey BC where I use to live. My girlfriend's eyes were starting to bug out from the strain so we had to take it slower but of course BC drivers aren't slow drivers they pushed and pushed for her to drive faster. Once guy almost ran us off the road with his semi.
We got to my mother's house and it understandable that we would be tired and for not driving ((for medical reasons)) I was really tired and my mother took it as I wasn't happy to see her. <---- This is where it starts.
The next morning I woke up and we had to sleep in the living room because my old room was occupied by my younger brother so I didn't mind at all but my back was stiff because my mother cools off the house so people sleep better.
My mom and my girlfriend hit it off right from the get go, which was nice of course, I visited with my brother as I haven't seen them for such a long time, and I missed them. Days go on and I starting to get bored and I hangout with my brother alot and I didn't hang very much with my mother and my girlfriend I wanted them to bond.
Then something happened... the first fight happened... My girlfriend told me that she felt like that my mom's house is like her mom and dad's she had to do all the cooking and she was bothered by it and of course it bothered me so I told her to stop... she didn't so I shrugged it off thinking nothing and that night my mom and her made soup and Bannock. My mother got mad at my brother because they didn't like her over my girlfrind's, she stormed off crying and yelling and when my girlfriend try to calm her down she made a crushal mistake: she should never tell my mom to calm down or relax. That made her Public enemy #1.
My mom Flipped on her which made my girlfriend cry but after 30 minutes of it they made up. First fight is finished.
Keep in mind Im staying a week...
My brother started the 2nd fight and it taking more toll on my girlfriend, my brother heard that my mom told people of his grades and he got mad about and confronted her..Mistake #2 - never confront my mother. Well my mother was drinking heavlly all week and that set her off again...if you haven't noticed she has a VERY short fuse.
Once again my mom blows up and my mom heard stuff of my girlfriends past and she threw it up in her face and kept going and going on everyone likes Faith more then her...
That fight was over the next day as everyone went to bed.
Everyone was on edge of all the fighting and everyone tried to be on their best behavior and we made PIZZA.
We sat down to watch Grandma's Boy - by the way is a great movie rent it. And we get a phone call, it was faith's father and she took it. My mom followed her into the kitchen kind of budding into her conversation. That set off my girlfriend and she told my mom to bud out of her bussiness....
Round 3...FIGHT!
My mom flips out and she told my Girlfriend to never tell her that in her own house and my girlfriend told me as I stood there trying to stop the fight to get our stuff were leaving then stuff got out of control. It was my Father's birthday that day and he was sleeping because he worked eariler and he deft in his right ear and he had it sleeping up he would woke up and helike a bear after getting desturbed...
So I grabbed all my stuff and my brother and his girlfriend who was also staying for a week tried to calm my mother down. I got all out stuff (minus some things...) and we packed up and she waited in the car and I talked to my mother she made me choose between her of my girlfriend.....
I choise my girlfriend she got mad and I said goodbye and I will see them soon.

Thats my rant for the week... stay tuned.